Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.

—Susan Cain (via rsvnr)

(Source: quotes-shape-us, via abderiaan)

alfirdaws:

Be patient. For what was written for you was written by the greatest of Writers.

(via thefreeversed)

abderiaan:

I’m so bad at making new friends
like I always come off as too friendly, it’s weird, and creepy. But I like it I think it’s more sincere, but then it doesn’t work with everyone so you shouldn’t do that BUT I’M AN IDIOT AND I believe that if someone judges based on that then we don’t need to be friends in the first place.

I do this too but in a different way, I try to accept whatever the person is like and sometimes people take it as though I’m bored or uninterested and is there really any fool-proof way to make new friends and have them like you ad not judge you?

abderiaan:

I’m so bad at making new friends
like I always come off as too friendly, it’s weird, and creepy. But I like it I think it’s more sincere, but then it doesn’t work with everyone so you shouldn’t do that BUT I’M AN IDIOT AND I believe that if someone judges based on that then we don’t need to be friends in the first place.